Complimenting

Complimenting a lady is a touchy matter. It has been known to go great lengths and it has also been know to stop an approach dead in its tracks. Being hesitant or bland about your compliment to a girl that usually loves and craves for compliments, can make her frown with scorn and turn her back on you. And being sincerely passionate and unique about your compliment to a girl that usually dismisses complimenters can make her fall into your arms with a sigh. Being able to be passionate, sincere and unique, is the best possible trait to have. Here are a few pointers on paying a compliment to a lady!

Never compliment the obvious. She knows about the obvious, she has heard compliments about it before and if you do it, you'll got nowhere with her with compliments about the obvious. Plus it gives the impression that you're just fishing for some cheap gratitude on her part without caring or appreciating her yourself.Avoid body compliments early in the relationship. Save them for later, when your opinion will be really important.

You can make an exception to this rule if there's something about her, that you really like so much, that you just can't bare not to tell her. But in this case don't forget to add a description of why you like what you like about her and how it makes you feel, and be sure that you really really like it.

Compliment the existent but not so obvious. This makes you stand out as it shows that you've actually invested some thought and have been more perceptive about her than others. When paying the compliment, don't just say you like this and that about her. Describe exactly why you like this and that, describe how this and that about her makes you feel - she'll be listening to you and feeling it alongside you.

Compliments tend to linger in the minds of the ones that receive them. The more reason for you to pay only the "right" compliments. For each time she thinks of the compliment and it was "right", she'll think of you in an affectionate manner. And if it was cheap - she'll think of you with scorn. So recognize and utilize the lingering aspect of compliments and only pay her the "right" compliments to have her feel continuously affectionate towards you.

Be careful with compliments when you just meet someone. "You look stunning in that skirt." is way too familiar for just meeting someone.

Compliment the parts of her body that you like later in the relationship and she'll adore you for it, for now you are someone who's opinion actually matters to her and thus you have the power to make her happy. So yes, women crave for body compliments just as much or even more than personality compliments, just don't make the mistake of paying those compliments early into meeting her or you'll come off as a horny pervert.